tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11802444001730677762024-03-12T16:31:51.926-07:00Cancer, Now What?"...I have heard thy prayer, I have seen thy tears: behold I will heal thee:..." II Kings 20:5Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.comBlogger123125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-53073352738388033692023-06-09T13:34:00.004-07:002023-06-09T13:34:53.689-07:0013 Years Cancer Free<p> As we traveled down the road yesterday I was thinking đ€ about today. Today marks 13 years of being cancer free. I am blessed beyond measure. My Great Physician has certainly taken very good care of me.</p><p>Since my last birthday đ„ł in November when I turned 70 I have been looking BACK a lot. It is amazing when we are young we are always looking FORWARD to several things. Such as getting a driverâs license, going to college, getting to vote, getting married, having children, and the list continues on. As an older person now I tend to look BACK on my life. Thankful for so many things,</p><p>My cancer journey started in April, 2003. WOW, 20 years ago! When they told me that I had cancer and that it was Stage 4 ovarian cancer I never thought I was going to die. I immediately got into my Bible and began looking up verses on faith and healing. Here is the verse the Lord gave me: ââŠI have heard thy prayer, I have seen thy tears: behold, I will heal thee:â 2 Kings⏠â20âŹ:â5⏠âKJVâŹâŹ. </p><p>I had such peace that my Lord, the Great Physician was going to take care of me. I donât know how anyone can go through such an awful journey without the Lord. I had surgery and immediately began the 1st treatment of 6 rounds of chemo, it seemed like it took forever. I would have blood work every week and chemo every 3 weeks. I truly felt like a pin cushion. After the first treatment my hair began to fall out. It was devastating, not just for me but also for Scott. He would see tears in my eyes every morning waking up with hair on my pillow or when I would wash my hair I would have handfuls of hair. </p><p>I went 6 years cancer free, at one of my regular checkups I was told my cancer was back (December, 2009). Wow, ânot againâ was my first thought. So again I got into my Bible to get another verse to hang onto to get me through another bout of cancer. Here is my verse: ââŠThis sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.â John⏠â11âŹ:â4⏠âKJV </p><p>I had to have surgery again (January 10, 2010)with the 6 rounds of chemo. Yes, I again I lost my hair, but I will say it was not as devastating because I knew what to expect. One thing about it, you never have a bad hair day.đ Another thing that was different, I could not tolerate the whole 6 rounds of chemo. It was either 4 or 5. I had an allergic reaction to the chemo. During my recuperating my incision reopened and the process to healing was AWFUL. I will spare you the details. So on May 23rd, 2010 was my last chemo treatment đđ»</p><p>Since that time, we have been able to share with others who are going through cancer or who have gone through cancer. We each share our experiences. There is just something about folks that understand the cancer journey, they can bond together and gain strength from each other. One thing about going through cancer, your life is totally changed forever. Through it all, we have given God the glory.</p><p>Canât express our gratefulness to everyone who prayed đ for us during our cancer journey. I am so thankful for Scott, he was with me every step of the way. He never missed a chemo treatment or an appointment with me. He is the best!</p><p><br /></p><p>âCall unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.â Jeremiah⏠â33âŹ:â3⏠âKJVâŹâŹ</p><p>He truly has!</p>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-21284733862892308822023-01-21T07:37:00.004-08:002023-01-21T07:37:26.502-08:00January 12, 2023<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><span> </span>Just wanted to Praise the Lord for another great report from my checkups at MD Anderson. Thank you for all the prayers.</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><span> My blood work was great 11.8, and just 1 stick. God is so good to me. </span><br /></span></p>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-1528764739502291382023-01-21T07:34:00.002-08:002023-01-21T07:34:21.694-08:00January 2023<p style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: georgia;"> </span><span style="font-family: georgia;">We drove by the hospital where I was first diagnosed with cancer in April of 2003. Wow, 20 years ago! They referred me to MD Anderson and that is where I had surgery and 6 rounds of chemo. I continued to get my checkups there and in December of 2009 it came back. NOT GOOD!!</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span> I had surgery in January 2010 and again chemo. Not as many rounds of chemo because I had an allergic reaction to the chemo.</span><br /></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span><span> Now this month on January 12th, I back to MD Anderson for my yearly checkup. I am thankful for MD Anderson and all they have done for me. We have some amazing stories, especially about the angel the Lord sent us. So, this coming May will be 13 years cancer free! Thank you to my Great Physician, my Lord.</span><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span><span><span> I will tell you that once you have had cancer, your life will NEVER be the same. Always, always before the next checkup we have some anxiousness, but we know it is all in the Lord's hands. I don't know how lost people go through cancer without the Lord!</span><br /></span></span></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><span><span><span><span> Do you know the Lord as your personal Saviour? The Lord is returning, and we are not guaranteed another second. We have heard of 2 deaths this week of people we know. Please don't put off asking Jesus into your heart.</span><br /></span></span></span></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span> </span><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-31423308518507644942022-09-29T08:15:00.002-07:002022-09-29T08:15:18.263-07:00September Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month - 2022<p> As I sit here, thinking đ€ about September being Ovarian Cancer Awareness month I remember where my cancer journey started. In April of 2003 I was at a point where I could not lay down to sleep and felt bloated, we had no clue what was wrong.</p><br />We ended up going to a clinic in our area and they immediately set up some tests at the hospital. I had had a ultrasound on my abdomen and as we were leaving, I told Scott I felt a little lightheaded and was going to just sit down while he went for the truck. About that time a nurse came outside, she looked at me and said, âhoney you donât look good,â she went inside got a wheelchair and we headed back inside.<br /><br />Come to find out I had an ascites, which is fluid buildup in the abdomen. A doctor came in to let us know that they were going to drain off the fluid. So, as they tried, they were having trouble getting the needle in. So they took me back to the ultrasound area so they could watch the needle insertion. They drained over a liter of fluid. Wow, did I feel better. I thought I was ready to go home and eat something. That did not happen, they admitted me to the hospital.<br /><br />That evening a doctor came in, he did not introduce himself, he said, âmaâam you have a cancerous tumor, and I will be back tomorrow to examine you.â We were shocked and the tears began to flow. That evening I got my Bible and started looking up verses on âfaithâ and âhealingâ. The 5th verse I read was II Kings 20:5 ââŠI have heard thy prayer, I have seen thy tears: behold, I will heal thee:âŠâ Immediately I had the peace of God and knew He was going to be with me.<br /><br />I eventually ended up at MD Anderson in Houston, TX. God was so good to get me there. My first call from MD Anderson was to find out what kind of insurance I had, âI replied, we donât have insuranceâ, they replied, âthen you donât have an appointment.â My husband started making several calls back to MD Anderson and reached a lady named âTaraâ. She said, âwe need to get your wife an appointment ASAP.â Long story short, she got us on a program at MD Anderson and my 1st appointment was May 19, 2003. <br /><br />We showed up for my appointment, we got to meet Tara, with all of us crying, we hugged her neck and thanked her for everything. I had surgery the next week and began chemo. Every time we would go back, we would try to contact Tara. Scott would call the hospital, and nobody knew anyone named âTaraâ. We never saw her again, she was our âAngelâ. Thank you, Lord!<br /><br />I received 6 rounds of chemo every 3 weeks with blood work every week. So, I went 6 years cancer free. In December 2009, while waiting for the doctor to come in, a lady came in for me to sign papers for a study I was on for the recurrence of ovarian cancer. As I was signing the papers, I thought to myself, âwhat if it recurs?â The doctor came in and she said, âyour cancer is back.â<br />Wow, my thought was NOT AGAIN!<br /><br />So, I got into my Bible again and God gave me another verse John 11:4 ââŠThis sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.â Peace from God again and we have been giving God the glory ever since. So, I had surgery again and was scheduled for another 6 rounds of chemo but due to reactions to chemo, I think I only had 4 rounds. Since May I am now 12 years cancer free. To God be the glory! I have had a âGreat Physicianâ.<br /><br />So, wherever you are in your cancer journey, just remember every individual is different, each situation is different, so DONâT compare yourself with someone else. Donât get on the internet to investigate your cancer, just trust the Lord for his direction and healing. I had researched the first time and it was very depressing. I thank the Lord for my doctors, nurses, etc. but I know who theâhealerâ is, my Lord!Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-31983607153349518072022-01-04T13:58:00.000-08:002022-01-04T13:58:03.170-08:00January 2022<p><span style="font-family: georgia;"> Happy New Year!</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;">I hope I am better at keeping up with my blog than I was last year. Life just gets busy as I am sure you know. We all have busy schedules and life to live. So I am going to start off with reporting my news on my last doctors appointment at M.D. Anderson in Houston, TX.</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;">My appointments started November 8th, first of all I had my blood work CA-125, then a mammogram, then a bone density tests, and finally the doctor exam. All my tests turned out good. My CA-125 was 11.1 and anything under 35 is good. Then on Tuesday, November 9th we both went to our primary physician to have blood work for our prescriptions. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;">In August we were at a meeting in Burlington, Iowa and we had gone out to eat on Saturday, with the pastor and his family. During the night I woke up throwing up, so we thought I had food poisoning. I continued to throw up so we stayed in Burlington a few more days and even went to the emergency room where they treated me for food poisoning. On Wednesday we decided to travel home to Bourbonnais, IL. I just couldn't hold any food down so by Friday night we back in the ER. We were informed I was a sick lady and that they were going to admit me. They tried first to see if I would be able to stop throwing up but I continued. So they decided I would need surgery. On August 24, 2021 I had major surgery for a double hernia and bowel obstruction. It was awful and it took me quite some time to recover. Because we live in our 5th wheel full time I had to go to my sisters to recoup, while Scott continue on going to meetings. It was a long journey because I was so weak before the surgery, it took longer to heal.</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;">In October I started loosing my hair. Everyone kept saying it was from the anesthesia. I guess I never realiz3ed it with my cancer surgeries because I was taking chemo treatments. My hair just continued to fall out. I mentioned it at both my doctor appointments, my primary doctor suggested I go to a dermatologist. So Wednesday before Christmas I saw the dermatologist and she said it was stress and a major surgery. It could take 6 months to a year for it took grow back. She told to get on some vitamins and gave me some topical solution to put on. It seems it is not coming out as much as when it started. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;">So as of May 2021 I have been cancer free for 11 years. Praise the Lord! God has been so good to me. </span></p><p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span></p>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-9912849888697676782020-01-24T07:23:00.002-08:002020-01-24T07:23:38.193-08:00Cancer, Now What? - January 2020<br />
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one of the worst things to go through. You know the saying âbeen there, done
thatâ I have not only been there, but have been there and done it twice. I HATE
CANCER! It is devastating, to the one going through it but also their family
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cancer. A lot of folks first thoughts may be âwhy me, âam I going to die?â,
âwhat about surgery, chemo and radiationâ, âhow much it is going to costâ, and âwhat
are we going to do?â<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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when everyone left my room, I grabbed my Bible. I began looking up verses on
faith and healing. I knew I was going to need some strength from the Lord. The
third verse I found was II Kings 20:5 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">ââŠI
have heard thy prayers, I have seen thy tears: behold, I will heal thee:âŠâ</i>
Immediately the peace of God flooded my soul. I called Scott and shared this
verse with him. In my heart I knew I was going to be OK. I never asked the
question âWhy me?â but âwhy not meâ was my thought. I never thought I was going
to die. My heavenly Father was there and was going to take care of me. I
continued to look up verses. I laid there in my hospital bed praying and
thinking about the verse He gave me. I remember laying there with tears running
down my cheeks while knowing and feeling such peace. My Father, the Great
Physician was going to go with us through this great trail in our lives.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Several other verses that helped me were I Peter 5:7 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">âCasting all your care upon him; for he
careth for you.â</i> I Peter 1:7 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">âThat
the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth,
though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory
at the appearing of Jesus Christ.â </i>Psalm 57:1 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">âBe merciful unto me, O God, be merciful unto me: for my soul trusteth
in thee: yea, in the shadow of thy wings will I make my refuge, until these
calamities be overpast.â</i> Isaiah 41:10 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">âFear
thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will
strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right
hand of my righteousness.â</i> Isaiah 41:13 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">âFor
I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will
help thee.â</i><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This verse was always on
my mind when going through tests and surgery. I would hold onto His hand. I
have shared these verses with other cancer patients more times than I care to
remember.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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during a yearly checkup was told that the cancer was back. I again immediately
got into my Bible again and the Lord gave me this verse John 11:4 <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">ââŠThis sickness is not unto death, but for
the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.â</i> So in
January 2010 I had surgery and chemo again. Both times having chemo, I lost my
hair. The first time was rough but not so bad the second time. I tell people
about losing their hair, âat least there is not any bad hair days.â As of May
2019 I have been cancer free the second time for nine years.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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PANIC!! It is NOT necessarily a death sentence. Get treatment as soon as
possible.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Keep focused, stay close to
the Lord! Donât start researching your cancer on the internet. Scott came home
one day and I was sitting in front of the computer crying. He told me to stop
looking up things about my type of cancer. I decided to keep looking up verses
in my Bible, pray, and continue to ask others to pray.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Donât go through it alone.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anderson but I know it was my âGreat Physicianâ who healed me. I give Him all
the glory.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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you have had cancer you are never the same. You have the anxiousness of going
to the doctor, having tests, and then waiting for the results. âIs it back?â
âAm I OK for another year?â<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Most of us have been there or have known someone who has had it or is going
through it. I think the main thing is to stay focused on the Lord. He can and
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others. I immediately wanted to share I had cancer so others could be praying.
If you know someone going through this awful disease, pray for them and their
family. Maybe you can reach out to them, call them, send a card, go with them
to doctor appointments, go with them to pick out a wig, (that is fun), spend
time with them is major. A person if left to himself, may not be good.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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strong, stay focused, let others help and share in your trial. Somewhere down
the line you will be able to help others going through cancer. I canât count
how many cancer patients we have met while traveling. We immediately connect
with them, because we have been there. So we may not know why we go through the
trials in our lives, but we sure can be a help to others going through the same
trials we have traveled.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Look for a need
and fill it! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
<br />Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-15535365023811552442019-08-13T11:05:00.002-07:002019-08-13T11:05:33.936-07:00The Great Physician - August 2019<br />
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Welcome to the Great Physician<br />
Office hours are as you come,<br />
He's a Specialist in all problems<br />
And His day is never done.<br />
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He can heal a heart that's broken<br />
He can mend the spirit, too,<br />
No matter what your ailment<br />
He does have the cure for you.<br />
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His fee for service never alters<br />
He serves rich and poor as well,<br />
He's our one chance for Salvation,<br />
He alone saves us from Hell.<br />
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There's no fee for services rendered<br />
All He asks is that we believe,<br />
That He bled and died to save us<br />
And all His blessings we will receive.<br />
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Do you have a special problem<br />
That is troubling you this hour?<br />
Then just simply leave it with Him<br />
You can find no greater power.<br />
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Don't delay in seeking treatment<br />
Please, my friend, don't hesitate,<br />
For His office is soon closing<br />
And He'll shut and lock the gate.<br />
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I wouldn't want you to suffer<br />
While the Doctor's so close by,<br />
Your whole life will be much better<br />
If my Physician you will try.<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> On May 27th, it will be my 9th anniversary of being cancer free. I am rejoicing! I continually give God the glory. This is one of the verses God gave me. John 11:4 "...This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory of God, that the Son of God might be glorified thereby." He is the "Great Physician" and "Great Healer". There is no other that can perform miracles. </span><span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Men try to say that they can "heal" but they are liars. It is up to God how He heals people and when.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> When I was diagnosed with cancer the first time (April 2003) I never once questioned God. "Why me?" This was my thought "Why not me?" I know one thing, I could of never made it through that valley without Him. Then again when the cancer returned (December 2009) I knew immediately I needed to lean on my heavenly Father.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> As we have traveled down the road, we have met so many people that have had or are going through cancer. Our hearts are immediately knit with these folks. We truly know what is is like. It is awful! Many times when we are going through some trial in our lives folks will say, "I understand" or "I know what you are going through." They do if they have been through that same trial in their lives.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> Even today, every time we turn around there is someone else with cancer. We have a list of names of cancer patients right now we are praying for. Yet we know who the "Great Physician" is. We added a name just this past Sunday of another young mom with cancer. It breaks my heart.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> A couple of weeks ago, a young girl and I were out soul winning. When walking up the driveway I notice a breast cancer decal on the back of their vehicle. I knocked on the door and began talking to a lady. After awhile I asked if she or someone close had cancer. Immediately she began to cry, her mom had recently passed away from breast cancer and she also had a grandchild with cancer. The young girl with me asked the lady, "can I give you a hug" and the lady hugged her. I began to share some about my cancer and again our hearts were knit. We chatted some more and she said that she was saved but was not attending church. I prayed with her before we left, please pray that April will get back into church.</span></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-44552837556350684552019-02-07T13:48:00.000-08:002019-02-07T13:50:45.462-08:00February 2019 Today I have been thinking and remembering a very special person. Some of you know who it is before I even mention her name, Kelly Moncofsky. It was a year ago today that she passed away from the awful battle of breast cancer.<br />
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I am so thankful for all the special times I got to spend with her and their precious family. Then to be adopted into the Moncofsky family has been such a blessing to Scott and I. Since we never had any children Jason and Kelly were like are own, and then to have 5 wonderful grandchildren is just out of this world.<br />
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Since I first began this cancer blog it is unreal how many people we have met or have heard about that have cancer. There is no age limit to this awful disease, it hits the young and the old.<br />
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I also wanted to share this article that Kelly wrote for me to share on my blog. I thought I would share it again. When you read it, think about her friend, Jesus. Do you know him? Is he your friend? If not, please make him your friend today. Message me and I would be glad to share Jesus with you.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> I don't know about you but I am glad to have a forgiving, loving, heavenly Father who wants and allows us to start over. Here we are starting a new year, what are your resolutions or goals for this year.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> There are so many, I know many will say, "I am going to loose weight", "I am going to eat healthier", "I am going to find a better job", and on and on we go. Also, many will say, "I am going to read my Bible through", "I am going to go to church more", "I am going to pray more", "I am going to learn how to win souls", "I am going to win more to the Lord" and all of these are good things.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> So I choose daily goals instead of the yearly goal. Today I can read my Bible, pray, eat healthy, exercise, walk, send an encouragement card, call a friend, bake cookies, clean bathrooms, etc. You can look at your list and see what you have accomplished. Don't get discouraged if you didn't finished the list, pick it up tomorrow and continue on. Another list might be, pass out 5 tracts today, talk to someone about the Lord, visit a shut-in, etc. The lists change daily and we can see our goals scratched off daily. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> Recently we visited a lady we use to work with Becky Eastep who has gone through breast cancer and it is back. She has already had a couple of surgeries to remove tumors on the brain and will be going through radiation treatment soon. Please pray for her. We have seen many others going through this awful disease of cancer. A pastor friend, we got to see a family in Missouri that the man had cancer and is doing well now. We immediately bonded with this family.</span></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-17281870489760151162018-11-03T09:59:00.001-07:002018-11-03T09:59:07.803-07:00Out of Sight, Out of Mind - November 2018<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">I know we have heard this saying, "Out of Sight, Out of Mind". This saying means that a person stops thinking about something or someone if he or she does not see that thing or person for a period of time. It is sad but so true. We all get so busy in our daily routines. Just like my blog it is out of sight and I forget I even have it. I was changing something on our web page for our ministry and I saw the button for my blog. Then I realized how long I have neglected it. So with the Lord's help, I am going to at least try to update it when we do our newsletter.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> So many things come and go in our lives. We meet so many different people especially as we travel. It is hard to remember names, faces and where they are from. As missionaries we carry prayer cards and hand them out because we want people to remember us and to pray for us.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> Have you ever had someone ask you to pray for them and you say you will but if you don't write it down or pray right then, "what happens?" We forget, Out of sight, out of mind. It is sad but we all have been there.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> So much has happened since my last post in March. The beginning of this year was rough. We were traveling back and forth from Texas to Quincy, IL. We wanted to be with Kelly and her family as much as possible. I thank the Lord for all the time He allowed us to spend with her in her last days and also with Bro. Jason and the kids. We love them all so much. Bro. Jason and Kelly were like "our kids" that we never had. They were our first church that we helped when we started Ambassador Baptist Ministries. We seemed to bond from the very beginning. The kids call us "Pawpaw and Grandma Debbie" makes our hearts melt.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> As time went on the pain was less but I think about her almost every day. When Mother's Day came around it was very hard. I found myself crying on and off most of the day thinking about her. Be assured I think and pray for Kelly's parents and have seen them and sent notes. I am just an "adopted mom". I must say it is neat that they adopted us. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> Things I do to remember her, I go back to our text messages and read them. We talked just about everyday, depending on how she was feeling. I will go back and look at lots of pictures of us together and watching videos we took at the end up at the hospital. Especially her birthday celebration in ICU. We have LOTS of special memories. We also see the family often. Recently we were at a meeting and there was a pastor's wife who looked so much like Kelly. I felt like I was stalking her, always looking her way and I just wanted to go give her a hug. Brought tears to my eyes, but oh, how sweet when the Lord does things in our lives to help us "remember" those things or people that are "Out of sight, out of mind".</span></div>
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For the last couple of years I have not been able to go to MD Anderson for my cancer check ups because of Obamacare. In November of 2017, I turned 65 and was able to go back to MD Anderson because I went on Medicare. Praise the Lord! I had my check up in December and I am still cancer free. Since Kelly and I talked just about everyday, I didn't want to tell her about my good report. So I just didn't bring it up, but of course, she did and I had to tell her. She was happy for me.</div>
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In January things got worse for Kelly, on January 22nd we got word that she had had a seizure. Well, we knew we needed to make plans to get to Illinois. We left Texas the next day headed for Quincy, IL. Arrived Thursday morning and headed directly to the hospital. Kelly was in ICU and on a ventilator. She was awake, alert but could not talk. She did have a white board and talked to all of us that way. Sometimes you would think she was asleep and than she would ask for her white board.</div>
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The next day was Kelly's 40th birthday, the nurses decorated her room, bought cupcakes, made a pillowcase for her and throughout the day, they would bring in gifts for her. The kids came up early that morning before they went to school. It broke our hearts to see the kids in her arms crying. We sang "Happy Birthday", all of us were crying and she was smiling and giving the thumbs up. She was excited because she received several balloons for her birthday and that is what she really wanted.</div>
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That evening a lady from their church and I were sitting there talking low, I was telling her how I had forgot a skirt while packing so fast. Immediately Kelly asked for the while board, she wrote on it "get money from hubby, I want to buy you a skirt" and pointed her finger at me. I told her she was ease dropping and getting bossy now that she was 40. She just smiled and thumbs up.</div>
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On Saturday, January 27th they took the ventilator out and moved her to a hospice room in the hospital. With the ventilator out she could now talk to us. On Sunday, a nurse bought her some eyelashes and put them on her. A couple of nurses got together and did a mini makeover. Kelly was all smiles and felt better with some eyelashes and makeup. Sunday night while I was sitting with her, she got into her pink bag and pulled out a cancer bracelet. She gave it to me and said now we have a bracelet alike. I had given her a necklace with two hearts, I have one just like it, I told her that was our hearts. We worn the necklaces all the time. She would text me and say "I am wearing my necklace" and I would tell her "I was too".</div>
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What a blessing that all through her stay in ICU until she went home, she was alert and talking to us. She was not in pain so that she would have to be sedated. On Tuesday, January 30th, Kelly went home to her house with Hospice care. I knew in my heart when I told Kelly that we would be back in a couple of days that she probably would be in heaven. </div>
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The next day we left to go back to Texas for a meeting we had, Sunday, February 4th in Coleman, TX. We left Monday to go back to League City, TX. Early Wednesday morning Bro. Jason called us to let us know Kelly had gone to heaven. Our hearts broke, we packed and headed back to Quincy the next day.</div>
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Tuesday, February 13th was Kelly's home going celebration. It truly was a celebration, the church was packed and with 1 saved. We drove to Bourbonnais Wednesday to be at the memorial service for her at Faith Baptist Church. Both services were amazing.</div>
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I wanted to share all of this so you could read about how her last few days were like. Never a tear from her eyes, asking Preacher (Bro. Anglea) about heaven, asking Pawpaw (Scott) to sing, always smiling, writing constantly on the while board when she couldn't talk and encouraging everyone that enter her room. Nurses and doctors would come in and be amazed by her, many of them crying, hugging her and some noticing that there was something different in her room. I am telling you GRACE was every where. She had a wonderful testimony for her Saviour and was looking forward to seeing him and those who had gone on before her.</div>
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Scott and I are blessed to be able to be in Quincy at Grace Baptist Church filling in while Bro. Jason and the kids get away. We are staying in their home and my sweet, Kelly is everywhere. For those who don't know Grace Baptist Church in Quincy was the first church we helped as we started Ambassador Baptist Ministries. Seth was 6 weeks old when we got there. It seemed like we just meshed with the Moncofskys. As time went on and Kelly was diagnosed with cancer we bonded. She called me the day she found out and the next day we were in Quincy.</div>
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Because of having cancer I knew first hand what she would be facing. It is not the same with everyone, I didn't go through a lot that she did. We would talk almost everyday. I must admit, I miss her so much. I even caught myself going to text her. I found a text message on my phone from her, "Happy adopted Mother's Day," oh my. You see, she was like a daughter we never had. The kids call us Pawpaw and Gamma Debbie. I am so thankful to how Kelly's parents and Bro. Jason's parents welcomed us in and to be a part of the family. In fact, we were told Netterville means Moncofsky in Lithuanian. </div>
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struggling mentally with it all. As a spouse it is very hard to watch and feel
so helpless a lot of the time. His personality has dramatically changed. He
went from being Mr. outgoing funny guy to self conscious, low self esteem, and
depression. He was always the one that made the major decisions, to now
question his every move. His one oncologist still considers him to be in the
early stages of recovery with last chemotherapy/ radiation being 8 months ago.
It is has been very hard to see all he has had to go through. I've never left
his side. If he had to stay at the hospital for weeks on end, I was too!! We
did it all together. With that being said, he now cannot handle being separated
from me at all. He goes into panic mode if my schedule gets hectic and he's not
included and I'm not around. He would be in the hospital and yell out my name
and inconsolable until I returned. Then he would be ok. I can't imagine how on
earth I could have gone through all this without the Lord and my church family
and couple relatives! I felt such peace as I watched him in ICU. The prayers of
those dear friends and family were my strength through it all. Even though he
is back at work for the last 5 months, things do not feel the same. He hurts
all the time. It's very sad to see as I stay home and homeschool our 2
daughters. I babysit on the side and house clean as well but feel so helpless.
I had to have a couple of my own surgeries in the last couple months. My doctor
found precancerous tumor in my ovary. He was a constant wreck!!! He just kept
telling me that he could never be without me. That pressure was hard to handle.
Thankfully I was ok. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I said that to say our lives
are totally different from before. I now have new roles in our family and in
our marriage. We are still getting used to it all. We take things day by day.
We have more bad days it seems than good a lot of times. He had always been the
optimistic one and me the pessimistic one, but those roles were forced to be
changed. Because I am naturally pessimistic, he can affect me more easily. The Doctors have said that his "chemo
brain" will get better, not sure how much better, but say that it could be
a year and a half AFTER his last treatment. That's why they said they still
consider him in the early stages of recovery.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-84862344616048250212017-10-11T07:35:00.000-07:002017-10-11T07:36:02.796-07:00Joe Medley - October 2017<i style="font-family: georgia, "times new roman", serif; text-align: justify;">We met Joe & Denise Medley while we were at a church in Missouri. We started sharing our stories and our hearts were knit together. I asked him to share his story and later you will also get to hear from Denise.</i><br />
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Hello, my name is Joseph
Medley. Here is my story...<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">At 42 years old, on January
16th 2016, I was diagnosed with colonrectal cancer. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I had two prior instances when
I had bleeding out of the rectum. The third time, it became really bad. I was
in the bathroom continually. My wife and children had been at church, and when
my wife came home, we started talking about going to the ER. Before we could, I
passed out in the bathroom, and she called the paramedics.......<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After an overnight stay in the
hospital, drinking the prep, I had a colonoscopy done the next day. That
colonoscopy revealed a tumor, at the base of the sphincter muscle, labeled at
that time Stage 1. So, the plan was made to do a surgery that would remove the
tumor, and give me a temporary ileostomy bag while my body healed......<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Shortly after what we thought
was a successful surgery, I got an infection that was affecting my surgical
wounds. We had a drain surgically implanted, while we treated for the
infection. The complications continued, and required another surgery.........<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We started to realize the
damage that had been done to my body, and we were faced with the realization
that life may never be normal again. It came down to one of two scenarios: <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Scenario 1: I will have to wear
a diaper for the rest of my life, because I will never regain control, or...<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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permanent colostomy bag installed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After many conversations and a
lot of prayer, my wife, doctors, and I decided to go with scenario 2. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">So, we had the surgery to fix
the infection and other issues, as well as removing the ileostomy bag and
installing the permanent colostomy. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">This surgery resulted in a 16
day hospital stay. The night after my surgery, I aspirated, and that put me in
ICU, after Rapid Response saved my life. I then ended up with pneumonia, staph
infection, MRSA, on oxygen, etc......<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">My wonderful wife never left my
side the entire hospital stay. She was so incredibly strong for me through this
entire illness, and continues to be. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As a result of this surgery,
they also found more cancer. This cancer was labeled Stage 3, and turned life
upside down instantly. As a result, there was a treatment plan implemented
including chemotherapy and radiation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After 7 weeks of recovering
from everything that happened in the hospital, we started the chemotherapy
treatment. My treatment consisted of two weekly visits, 4-5 hours each visit,
as well as wearing a portable chemo pump whenever I wasnât at the Cancer
Center. We went through 2 complete rounds of this, each round consisting of 6
weeks. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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incorporated the radiation into the treatment plan. The radiation was every
weekday, for a 6 week period. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">By mid-December of 2016, the
very long year was coming to an end. I completed all treatments, and officially
labeled âin remissionâ<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I knew that cancer was a
horrible thing, but I never realized how horrible the treatments are. I believe
to this day that the only symptom I ever had, from the cancer itself, is some
bleeding. But the list of symptoms and side effects from the treatments are a
mile long.......<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Donât get me wrong, Iâm very
thankful for the treatments, and believed they were used to save my life. Iâm
just saying that though treatments are successful in battling cancer, it is
horrible what the treatments do to a person. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The radiation literally burned
my entire pelvic area, to the extent of my body literally splitting open.
Thankfully, I have fully recovered from all of the radiation side effects,
though I still experience some hip pain that was never an issue before
radiation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The chemotherapy has a
different lasting effect. I canât even really fully explain it, or even fully
personally understand it myself. I just know that my thought processes,
reactions, decision making, etc. has been drastically affected from the
chemotherapy. I really am not even the same person anymore in many ways. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">That said, I returned to work
in March of 2017, and have been working 50-60 hours a week ever since. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I praise and thank God for my salvation
and His presence with me through all of this. I have no idea how I could have
even made it through without Him, and I know that my wife and children would
say the same. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">One of my hopes going forward
is that somehow some way my story might be used to help inform, strengthen, or
encourage somebody else. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">But for somebody looking for
any hope, or peace, I would point to the Lord Jesus Christ, who is always there
with open arms to âwhosoever willâ<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-63561018179473019462017-10-10T12:51:00.002-07:002017-10-10T12:51:33.505-07:00October 2017<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">As I am updating my blog I am sitting in a cabin in the woods in Newton, MS. Spending a couple weeks out here and helping a church has been a great place to do some thinking and praying.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">First of all, I would like to ask ya'll to be praying for Kelly Moncofsky who wrote an article for this blog in March. She is going through some difficult issues right now and they could use some prayers. Also, you might want to go back and read her article to refresh your mind.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I have asked several people who I know that have gone through cancer themselves, a family member, a caregiver, to just share their hearts. I know as we meet people along the our way and find out they are going through cancer or have gone through it, we just seem to connect. I find it encouraging to share with others what we have gone through and how the Lord blessed. So I hope you will enjoy reading these articles and if they bless your heart please share that with these folks.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I notice sometimes that having gone through cancer twice as time goes on it is like it never happened. It has been seven years of being cancer free for my second round, I am so thankful. Yet, as I sit out here in the woods, I just thank the Lord for another day He has given me. I think of others that I am praying for that are in the midst of the battle right now, and I am so blessed. I don't want to dwell on the bad times, but I don't want to forget what I went through and what my Lord has done for me.</span></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-31353387925031856582017-08-24T14:58:00.001-07:002017-08-24T14:58:43.955-07:00August 24, 2017<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">As I begin to update my blog I see it has been too long since I wrote something. Sorry, for that but just like everyone else, we tend to be busy with all kinds of things in our lives.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">So thankful for the ministry that the Lord has allowed Scott and I to do. We don't take it for granted and thank him often for being used in the ministry. We have had several issues with our trailer and it has created a lot of stress. Looking forward to seeing how the Lord is going to help in all of this. We know HE WILL.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">We pray often for our health that we will stay healthy to be able to stay on the road. We realize we are not spring chickens. I have received several items in the mail and see online about Medicare. Wow, does that mean I am getting OLD???? I know it is hard to believe but in November I will turn 65 years old. People are shocked when they hear how old I am. After going through cancer twice I am so thankful to be alive and am proud to share my age. The old saying, " you never ask a lady how old she is" I love to tell my age.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Please continue to pray for folks going through cancer. I have a list I pray for and I am sure you probably have some you are praying for. It is a very difficult time for the person going through it and their families. Praying for them is the greatest thing we can do.</span></div>
Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-25924544340417118262017-05-30T18:15:00.002-07:002017-05-30T18:15:06.930-07:00May 30, 2017 - 7th Anniversary Cancer Free<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> As
I write this article, I am three days past my 7<sup>th</sup> anniversary of
being cancer free, for the second time.
We have been so busy, going here and there that it just slipped by
us. Scott told me yesterday, he knew it
was getting close but too didnât remember and we didnât get to celebrate. Every time I had a good checkup or it was
another year of being cancer free, we would always celebrate. These
are great mile stones when going through cancer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> As we travel the roads of our great
country we have had the opportunity to meet so many people, who have gone
through cancer or going through it as we speak.
It always touches my heart, because I know exactly what they are going
through. We always seem to connect with
those families. So we try to encourage
them and pray with them. I am praying
for several people right now with cancer or who have had it. I also pray that the Lord would continue to
keep me cancer free.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> Pray with me as I would like to put
in book form about my cancer journey. I
kept a journal while going through cancer both times and would like to be able
to share with others. I must admit it is
very hard to either have time to just sit down to write or have a quiet place
to retreat too. Also, I am not a very
good writer but it sure blesses my heart to be able to write down what I am
feeling.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Georgia","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"> I am totally blessed beyond measure
with what my âGreat Physicianâ has done for me.
I give him all the glory. My
verse God gave me the second time going through cancer. John 11:4 <i>âWhen
Jesus heard that, he said, This sickness is not unto death, but for the glory
of God that the Son of God might be glorified thereby.â<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-29739282940765308922017-05-14T11:42:00.001-07:002017-05-14T11:42:07.762-07:00Mother's Day - 5/14/2017<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: .5in;">
<span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">I
must admit today is not one of my favorite days. Since I have never had any of my own children,
as I get older Motherâs day gets harder.
While I was young it seemed that I handled not having any children
easier than now that I am older. Now
that my husband and I are older, we miss not having any grandchildren.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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feel for all those young and older ladies who have never had children, I know
how you feel. As I go to church I must
make a decision how am I going to answer everyone telling you âHappy Motherâs
Day.â Years ago I just decided to just
say âthank youâ and let it go. So this
morning a lady says, âHappy Motherâs Dayâ and I reply, âthank youâ. She doesnât stop there, she says, âhow many
children do you have?â and I reply ânoneâ.
Now she is apologizing and it is awkward. Sometimes I wish I could just sleep through
this day, but missing church is not an option for me.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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am totally happy for all you mothers out there and God bless you. What is something else that hurts my heart is
when you hear mothers complaining about their children. How much sleep they arenât getting, how
children have totally messed up their life, or whatever else they can think to
complain about. Or see all the children
that need to be adopted here in the USA and how expensive it is. We totally prayed about children and adopting
children when we were younger, but the Lord never opened those doors. Like I said we were content and have been
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> I hope you enjoyed the last post from my friend, Kelly Moncofsky. We are still praising the Lord for what He has done for her. A lot of things have been on my mind these last few weeks. Once you have gone through cancer, you are connected with folks you meet with cancer and sometimes even those you have never met.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> Recently a young woman who I never met passed away from her battle with cancer. Her story is very sad but in the long run, we know who is in control. Her and her husband were missionaires to the foreign field. A month ago she gave birth to a precious baby girl, and two weeks later she passed away. They have 5 children, so please be in prayer for this precious family.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> There are so many folks we know that is battling cancer right now and we are praying for them and their families. We know cancer is not only a battle for the individual person, but also for their families and friends.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> When I hear of someone passing from cancer or hear of another one fighting cancer, it just breaks my heart. I have been their twice, we know what they are going through. I know one thing,<b> I HATE CANCER!!</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> Hopefully, in the near future I will have some more testimonies to share with you. Not only patients, but spouses, and other family members who are caregivers. If there is anyone out there that maybe we could be an encouragement to, please let us know.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;">Do you have a best friend? Someone who you can count on,
tell your secrets to, be real with, âunloadâ your burdens to? I do. His name is
Jesus. This song means more to me now, and in the past year and a half, then it ever did before. Iâve sung it many
times in church, but the words are dearer to me now. When you hear from the Dr.
that you have the âCâ word, life changes and Jesus really does become your
dearest friend. In August of 2015 I was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer.
At the time, I was only 37 years old. Not something many 37 year olds hear.
With a husband, 5 kids, and a church to take care of, this news was hard to
bear. Put me into shock, actually. I knew something was going on because I
hadnât felt good for about 2 months prior. I still had no idea I was about to
embark on a journey that would turn my world upside down. Millions of questions
and scenarios raced in my head while my husband and I sat in the Drâs office
that day. I was literally waiting for someone to pinch me so I could wake up
and say it was just a bad dream. However, it wasnât. It was real, and I was
scared. I remember sitting there, watching my husband with tears coming down
his cheeks. It almost hurt more to see him hurting so badly. All I could do was
pray. And pray I did! Unless youâve experienced something like this yourself,
you probably wonât understand completely what Iâm about to say next. The peace
that swept over me in those next few hours of tests and poking and prodding was
absolutely unbelievable!<i> âThou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is
stayed on thee; because he trusteth in theeâ </i>(Isaiah 26:3) I didnât lose it. I
didnât panic. I didnât even cry which for me, is a miracle in itself because I
normally cry over everythingï The Lord was with me. He was my rock (Psalm
61:2). He was giving me the grace I needed. He was bearing my burden!! To make
a very long story short, I chose to go the natural route after all my tests and
biopsies came back confirming my illness. I had no treatment for almost a year
after, just a big change in my lifestyle and diet. The testing that I had done
each month from the naturalist I was seeing showed that I was improving and
that the cancer was going away. However, about 10 months into it, I started
feeling terrible. I had no energy, I was losing weight, couldnât even climb the
stairs of our house. I was basically on the couch or in bed all day long. After
several family members urging me to get blood work done, I finally agreed. My
husband had to carry me to the car that day. We went to the ER and had blood drawn.
Turned out, I was severely anemicâŠlike, deathly anemic. My hemoglobin was 2.8.
That is NOT normal. In fact, itâs considered critical. The nurses and my ER Dr.
were in shock that I was still alert and awake. That was God! So of course I
was admitted and given a blood transfusion shortly after. From there, they had
to determine the cause of my anemia so again, several tests were done. The
entire time I was going through these tests, the Lord was there, giving me
peace again. He was once again, my best friend. I told Him I was scared. I told
Him I was nervous, burdened and anxious. He knew. He took care of me.<i> âThen
they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and he bringeth them out of their
distresses. He maketh the storm a calm, so that the waves thereof are stillâ
</i>(Psalm 107â28-29) After many hours of seeing Drâs, giving my blood away,
getting new blood, having a heart monitor, etc. an oncologist met with me and
told me that my cancer had spread and was now in my bone marrow, which was
causing my red blood cells to be destroyed as well as my platelets. I was also
at risk for bleeding. YeahâŠ.thatâs a big load to carry!! But Jesus said, let me
carry it, child.<i> âCasting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.â</i> (I
Peter 5:7). My hospital stay ended up
being almost 2 weeks. I had one oncologist tell me when it was just her and I
in the room that I had about 6-18 months to live, with this diagnosis. UmâŠsay
what?! Boy was this a time to cast all my cares upon Him; to bring my burden to
Him. I heard a lot of bad news in the hospital during those 12 days but
honestly, I also felt the peace of God that truly<i> âpasseth all understanding.â
</i>(Philippians 4:7). Unexplainable peace.
Iâm so glad I had Jesus as my best friend at this time. Iâm so glad He was
there with me during the MANY tests, biopsies, Doctor visits, blood draws,
transfusions and scans. Friend, is Jesus your best friend? Can you take all
your cares and burdens to Him? Are you? Or are you trying to bear them alone?
Itâs so much easier when you give them to Him. Iâm ashamed to say it, but up
until my diagnosis, I donât think I really relied on Jesus to carry my load. I
think I tried doing a lot of it myself. I trusted myself to get through the
hard times and challenges of life. Maybe God put me through this to show me HE
ALONE is the one to trust. My earthly friends are wonderful. I have some of the
best of friends here on earth. But none of them could have helped me through all
of this like Jesus did. None of them could have given me that peace. None of
them could have sustained my spirit like He did. Psalm 16:11âŠ.in his presence
is fullness of joy. Amen to that! So, its been 5 months since I came home from
the hospital and to Godâs glory, I have been making remarkable strides in my
health. I went from having blood transfusions every 10 days, to not needing one
now for 2 months! I feel great, have had encouraging Doctor appointments, and
just feel like a new person, praise the Lord!! He is so good to me. Iâm so glad
He taught me to lean on Him more. One of my favorite verses while going thru
this trial was, and still is Isaiah 41:10! Such powerful words! My story is
nothing special. I know there is so many others who have experienced something
like this, or who are going through it right now. I just wanted to brag on my
Jesus for a bit, and let you know that youâll never find a better friend!</span><o:p></o:p></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-72541577531321769062016-09-22T08:38:00.001-07:002016-09-22T08:38:06.901-07:00September - 2016<div style="text-align: justify;">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Nothing new on the medical side, we will have to check into new insurance and doctors in a couple of months. Have not had any new check ups but we are trusting our "GREAT PHYSICIAN" to keep me healthy and cancer free. My sister Paula, still is cancer free. I have some folks that you can be praying for that have cancer: </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">There are many others out there that I don't know. I HATE CANCER!!! I have gone through it twice myself. September is <b>Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month </b>as well as </span><b><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Childhood Cancer Awareness </span><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">M</span></b><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>onth</b>. I had O</span><span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">varian cancer both times and had good friends who lost their little boy with brain cancer. You can't go any where without hearing about cancer. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, "Times New Roman", serif;">Well, until next time continue to PRAY for those going through cancer, you never know when it will hit someone close to you.</span></div>
Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-54370871757061557642016-02-10T11:22:00.002-08:002016-02-10T11:22:57.670-08:00Busy Beginning of 2016 We have been busy since the beginning of the year. Of course, we are staying south while we can since we are in our trailer. I must admit it has been chilly a few nights in the trailer. One night we even had to drain the hose and turn the water off so it wouldn't freeze.<br />
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We have been in churches presenting the work, a Mission's Conference, and helping a church in Louisiana. I think we have had 8 saved plus a bonus having 3 family members saved. What a blessing to see the Lord work in our family members hearts, folks we have been praying for, for several years.</div>
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We have had to have work done on the truck, put 2 new tires on the truck, repair our electrical cord for the trailer and having the truck checked out again today (Feb. 10). So they keep saying, there is always something to work on and I am beginning to believe it. It is all in the Lord's hands.</div>
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Since the new year we have had two churches take us on for support. That is a great blessing. Please continue to pray for us and for our support to increase. We look forward to the day when we can totally concentrate on just starting and helping churches. </div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-61177879866567834252016-02-10T11:22:00.000-08:002016-02-10T11:22:39.899-08:00Medical Update - January 2016<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> Well, the New Year started off not so good. That is concerning our health insurance, thanks to our wonderful president. I had my appointments scheduled at M. D. Anderson for January 5. My first appointment, as always is for blood work. Made that appointment with no hitches. Next appointment was for my mammogram, go to sign in and they inform me that my account has been been blocked. Due to change in insurance the beginning of the year. Long story short, I was not able to have my mammogram or see my doctor. So we went upstairs to cancel my appointment with my doctor and the receptionist said, "wait just a minute while I check to see if there is a charge for cancelling your appointment." I tell Scott, "if there are any charges, they can send them to Obama." Because of our wonderful insurance program, I can no longer keep my doctor at M.D. Anderson unless I can get a referral.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "georgia" , "times new roman" , serif;"> Scott, has spent many hours searching for an insurance plan that we can afford and that will work for us. He has spent many hours on the phone talking to many people who in the end have been of no help. Today, (Feb. 10) he finally found us a PCP in Texas so we can have a doctor who will refill our prescriptions. He has been working on this since the beginning of January. We are not happy campers!! I am sure there are many of you out there in the same boat. We have an appointment the first week of March. We will see how that turns out.</span></div>
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07549902390486945902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1180244400173067776.post-83055526552872658752015-12-09T08:52:00.000-08:002015-12-09T08:54:33.721-08:00Catching Up With The Nettervilles - December 9, 2015<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">I didn't realize how long it had been since I had posted on my blog. Isn't it amazing how times gets away from us. I am pleased to say we are enjoying serving the Lord. I am going to try to update y'all on what is going on.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">Many of you already know we are missionaries with Ambassador Baptist Ministries. </span>We are serving out of Faith Baptist Church, Bourbonnais, IL and Bro. Terry Anglea is our pastor. <span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;"> We help start new churches and help small churches. We sold our home in Pasadena, Texas and bought us a 5th wheel trailer, truck and we travel around the United States. People ask us where we live and I reply "where ever our trailer is parked. It has been a year and a half since we got started and we are loving it. What a blessing to go in and help small churches. We have been there and know what they go through. When we go to a small church, we may stay 3 or 4 weeks and help in whatever we can. I will work the nursery, we will go out soul winning, we will help clean, we will babysit the preachers children so he and his wife can have a date night. We also have been blessed to help start 2 new churches. One in Breckenridge, Texas and the other in Springfield, Illinois both are still doing a great job.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "times" , "times new roman" , serif;">As Scott calls trying to set up meetings for our deputation, almost every 3rd or 4th call is a small church asking us to come help them. We have been blessed that we spend about half our time helping churches and the other half on our deputation. Please pray with us to raise our support so we can concentrate on helping and starting churches.</span></div>
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